As I’ve
noted, many people helped me during my recent job
hunt. Someone who has always encouraged and supported me was not called out
earlier because she deserves a gratitude post all to herself.
I’ve
known CA since before my first stint in the People’s Republic in the mid-90s.
She and her husband own a photo/video studio and she’s one of the few people I
know who have more books than I do. She’s got a terrific eye for design,
composition and color; before I moved into this place, I showed her floor plans
and realtor photos of the space, and followed her recommendations for how to
arrange my furniture. (I’d also had her join my realtor and me once on the day
I decided to make the offer.)
We
get together for weekend breakfast as often as our schedules allow, so we can
sort out all the world’s ills. Also, dish. Dishing is very important to
one’s sanity.
Even
though the corporate ecosystem is not her thing, CA always listens to my gripes
and rants. She’s the one who leaves me little surprises at my front door (like
an Easter basket of mustard greens for the brown bunny that likes to eat my
herbs). Some years ago, I was struggling with trying to recapture the Tigger
side of my personality, she sent me this guy:
He
went with me in 2015 to the on-site interview I had for my last employer (in my
handbag), and he went with me last month to the on-site interview with this
one.
When
I had to submit
a bloody video for an innovations competition I was de facto never
going to win a couple of years ago, CA and TM spent hours shooting and editing
it for me. I may not have been the worst talent they’ve ever worked with, but I’m
sure I’m in the top ten. They didn’t show it.
CA
has encouraged my explorations. When I went to Ireland in May, she told me she
loved my blog posts, and the photos. Some of the best (and most-needed) books I
have on slowing down and taking breaths were gifts from her. Also, I have an amazing collection of fridge magnets and buttons with slogans like, "If they can send a man to the moon, why can't they send all of them?" and a Mark Twain quote, "While the rest of the human race are descended from monkeys, redheads are derived from cats."
On my
Metro ride home the day I had the Dalìesque discussion with the head of HR, I
texted her with the news. Her immediate response: let’s have dinner at the club
(the local golf club of which she and her husband are members). She fed me.
In
the time since that dinner, CA’s commented several times that I seem much
stronger than I have in the past. She’s right, and it’s really heartening that she
validated my sense of what’s going on. Every time I passed through a gate in
this last hiring process, I shared the news with her first, and she squeed with
me.
I had
to submit a headshot against a white background for my security badge, so I
asked if CA and TM could shoot one real quick. When I showed up, their living
room was a photo studio, with lights, backdrop, posing stool and camera all set
up. It must have taken them hours. They patiently worked with it all and me until
they got enough shots for us to pick one. I loved watching the two of them operating
as a perfectly aligned team. TM had already phoned the security folks to ask
what format they accept; while we were working on the final choices, he called
again to ask whether they preferred square or rectangular. I was so humbled and
kind of ashamed at the level of work I’d put them to, but my head shot is
terrific.
(As
an aside, DR, the guy who made the internal referral, told me, “My badge looks
like death because I drove in starting at 4 that morning to avoid traffic and
ran my car battery down while taking a nap in the parking lot….My badge mostly
says ‘I require a nap and/or may be a raccoon.’” My badge says I am ready to
roll.)
I am
not big on personalizing my work space, but I feel like CA’s card and the mug
she gave me are appropriate for my desk:
As
you can see, I’ve already baptized the latter with a latte. If my colleagues
pay any attention to the former, they’ll know the way to my heart.
It
may be Gratitude Monday, but one day is not enough to express my appreciation
of my friendship with CA.
1 comment:
Thank you isn't enough. Right now they are the only two words I can think of.
Love, CA
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