Friday, June 9, 2023

Let love shine

Pride Month is doing more heavy lifting this year than usual, what with Republicans’ doubling down on the repeal of Roe v. Wade to attack the existence of LGBTQ+ people all across the country. From banning books to outlawing healthcare to going apeshit about drag shows, they’re in the last hurrah stage of trying to turn back time.

And it’s costing lives.

So it seems like this time round, in addition to the celebration aspect of Pride Month, we need to be shouting and marching and legislating (yay, Minnesota!) to retain humanity, reminding ourselves that, unless everyone is free, no one is free.

Today our earworm is the big finish from Kinky Boots, “Raise You Up/Just Be”. Cyndi Lauper and Harvey Fierstein created this musical based on the 2005 film about a failing Northampton shoe factory saved by a drag queen’s designs for, well, kinky boots. This finale piece is exactly what we need right now, so crank up the volume.


 

Thursday, June 8, 2023

The fire next time

The out-of-control forest fires raging across Canada have sent smoke and ash around the East Coast of the United States. At least as far south as North Carolina, the air is thick with things that shouldn't be there and agencies have issued warnings about not going outdoors unless you absolutely have to, and—if you do—don’t do anything strenuous.

I have two thoughts about this:

First. There really is no such thing as localized climate disaster. We’re all connected, we’re all affected by it and we all cause it. There is no moral high ground and there is no safe place. The sooner we realize that, the sooner we can begin actually tackling the problem.

Second. Welcome to growing up in LA in the 60s.

 

 

Wednesday, June 7, 2023

Inspiration

I think today we’ll have some roses—because, why not?







 

 

Tuesday, June 6, 2023

The lads at Normandy

As we mark 79 years since the landings along Normandy beaches, I’ve been thinking about what I learned on my visits to that area over the years.

There are three military cemeteries within a few kilometers of one another near Omaha Beach: Colleville-sur-mer, American; Bayeux, British; and La Cambe, German. I’ve walked them all, several times.

The American cemetery is situated on the bluff above Omaha Beach. You can stand at the edge and look down on the scene of the slaughter. And wonder how the hell they ever made it up to where you are. The graves are marked with white marble crosses, with the occasional Star of David interspersed. It’s quiet, usually, except for the wind. More than 9300 men lie there—not all fallen at Normandy, but congregated there in the fellowship of death.

The British cemetery, run by the Commonwealth War Graves Commission, is in the heart of Bayeux, the town they took on 7 June. The headstones are like those at all CWGC graveyards—identically-sized slabs of white marble engraved with the soldier’s name, regiment and date of death (if known; otherwise a cross and “known but to God” inscribed); a centrally-located Cross of Sacrifice (tall marble cross with a sword inset), and a Stone of Remembrance, inscribed “Their Name Liveth Forevermore”. More than 4000 Brits, Commonwealth, Poles, French and others lie there.

La Cambe is outside Bayeux; you get to it down a quiet road that seems to have no other purpose but to lead you to the dead. The cemetery is maintained by the Volksbund Deutsche Kriegsgräberfürsorge, the German counterpart to the CWGC. It’s not as large space-wise as the two Allied graveyards. That’s because when you look at the inscriptions on the black metal markers set into the earth, you see there are often two to five men buried in a single spot. Plus, there are the nearly 300 known and unknown under the central mound. More than 21,000 men lie there.
The thing that struck me almost from the first in these three cemeteries was the ages on the markers—you almost never see anyone who’d reached 24. Most were in the 19-22-year age range. When you’d expect them to be in college, or working their first jobs.

I’ve often wondered what the world lost through those early deaths. What music never was composed? What scientific breakthroughs never made? What civic gains, feats of sportsmanship, family enrichment just disappeared from the future in June 1944?

That, of course, is in addition to the anguish and sorrow that engulfed their families. Parents, siblings, wives, children—bereft and left alone to sort out a world gone mad. No one to repair the gutter or fix the bike; to guide a grandchild’s hands tying a bow knot; to comfort a friend; to surprise a lover with flowers.

It had to be done—it always seems to need doing. But take a few moments this weekend to think on those 30,000 lives cut short in Normandy nearly 80 years ago. The boys of D-Day who put their lives on the line for their generation and those that followed.

 

 

 

 

 


Monday, June 5, 2023

Gratitude Monday: on the road to recovery

My gratitude today is that the second total knee replacement surgery went well. Seemed to me like I did better this time than in January. By which I mean far less pain. Maybe they used smaller hammers this time?

They kept me in hospital overnight. When the surgeon saw me Friday morning he commented that maybe I could have gone home the night before, but considering all the antibiotics they pushed through the IV, I’m okay with that.

Interestingly, the joint has got stiffer since that first day—much harder to bend. But I get around fine on the walker. I’m off to physical therapy today to start the rehab process and I’m looking forward to getting through this and getting to two working, pain-free knees.